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Teen who posted video on bullying found dead

By Charmaine Noronha

Associated Press

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LAST UPDATED: 09:53 a.m. HST, Oct 13, 2012



TORONTO » Canada was in uproar over a 15-year-old schoolgirl who was found dead, an apparent suicide, five weeks after she uploaded a video to YouTube describing years of bullying that drove her to drugs and alcohol.

Coroner Barb McLintock said Thursday night that preliminary indications suggest the British Columbia girl, Amanda Todd, killed herself. Her school district's spokeswoman, Cheryl Quinton, confirmed the girl in the video was her.

In the 9-minute video posted on Sept. 7, the 10th-grader and cheerleader didn't speak but told her story in haunting detail in a series of handwritten notes that she held up to the camera.

She said she was lured by a stranger to expose her breasts on a webcam and the picture ended up on a Facebook page made by the stranger, to which her friends were added.

She wrote of being plunged into anxiety, depression, drugs and alcohol. She said she changed schools but an encounter with another girl's boyfriend started the bullying again, which this time escalated into a physical attack in which she said she was beaten.

When she got home, she wrote, she drank bleach. "It killed me inside and I thought I actually was going to die."

She was rushed to a hospital to flush out the bleach. More anxiety, cutting and overdosing followed, her struggles with anxiety and cutting herself got worse, and despite counseling and antidepressants, she was rushed to hospital again after an overdose.

The last cards said simply: "I have nobody. I need someone. My name is Amanda Todd."

Beneath the video, Todd posted a note saying she produced it not for attention, but "to be an inspiration and to show that I can be strong."

"Everyone's future will be bright one day, you just gotta pull through. I'm still here, aren't I?"

Coroner McClintock said she died in her home Wednesday. Her office released no other details.

Her family could not be reached by phone. The Coquitlam Royal Canadian Mounted Police said the family is not prepared to speak publicly and have asked that their privacy be respected.

The girl's death was headline news nationally, with #RIPAmanda trending across Twitter and the Amanda Michelle Todd memorial Facebook page garnering more than 30,000 "likes."

Cyber-bullying experts and criminologists suggested laws be strengthened to allow police to trace cyber bullies through the Internet.

British Premier Christy Clark posted a video on Youtube deploring the tragedy. Bullying "isn't a rite of passage," she said. "Bullying has to stop."

The British Columbia gym where Amanda was a cheerleader posted a statement on its Facebook page.

"I ask that we all watch her video and share her story so that her loss is not in vain," the statement read. "Allow this to be her legacy. Allow us to all look around and find the next Amanda before another precious spunky teenager is lost."

Shock, sadness and recriminations poured out on a Facebook page devoted to her, with one signatory accusing others of having participated in the bullying.

Irena Pochop, communications manager for the Maple Ridge and Pitt Meadows school district east of Vancouver, confirmed Amanda was enrolled in the district and had changed schools this year.

She would not address the girl's specific case but said the district had a detailed system in place to protect victims.






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al_kiqaeda wrote:
I couldn't watch more than a minute. Sickening. The police need the powers to trace bad guys like this.
on October 12,2012 | 04:32PM
patk wrote:
"Irena Pochop would not address the girl's specific case but said the district had a detailed system in place to protect victims." What a load of bull. School administrators are tucking their tails between their legs and trying to hide, instead of earnestly trying to address the problem. She should have said that the system failed in this case.
on October 12,2012 | 05:31PM
mechanic wrote:
wow!
on October 12,2012 | 07:49PM
808Cindy wrote:
Bullies who are found to be persistant in there attacks should be punished by the law. NO ONE should have to go through this.
on October 13,2012 | 08:23AM
8082062424 wrote:
Fault lay at this girls parents feet. really sad.
on October 13,2012 | 08:39AM
soundofreason wrote:
That hit me that way too.
on October 13,2012 | 09:38AM
hilocal wrote:
How so, 8082062424?
on October 14,2012 | 06:20AM
cunfuzd4 wrote:
8082062424 - Her parents did her a grave disservice by teaching her to be so gullible and it seems she did not feel that she could come to them with her problem, but what that bunch did plus, tracking her around is WAY out of line. Don't forget that in both cases she did not impose on anyone, it was the other way around she was clearly a victim. Unfortunately I doubt that anything will be done about it.
on November 18,2012 | 06:16AM
Forever_Grateful wrote:
This is such a sad and tragic story. There has always been bullies and bullying but they have sure gotten meaner and meaner these days. Where do these mean spirits come from? My condolences to her family. And may each and every one of those mean spirited kids live with guilt the rest of their lives.
on October 13,2012 | 08:41AM
hilocal wrote:
I agree with you, Forever_Grateful.
on October 14,2012 | 06:21AM
Psyche wrote:
So very very saddening... I will let my kids watch this when they are a bit older so they can learn from this poor girl's tragedy.
on October 13,2012 | 09:28AM
7yearTribulation wrote:
May the men and women involved in this tragedy be So Convicted by the Holy Spirit . That they would confess their sin, repent and get right with God... In Jesus Name Amen
on October 13,2012 | 10:14AM
hilocal wrote:
How about boys and girls, 7yearTribulation?
on October 14,2012 | 06:22AM
piimahoe wrote:
bullying lies in the hands of technology all anonymous all the time when texting no old school just be what you want and hide behind the electronic messages. We should all go old school and face your tormentors.
on October 18,2012 | 10:41AM
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