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David Weinlick, 48, was married 19 years after arranged marriage at Mall of America

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    David and Elizabeth Weinlick pose for a photo at their home in Woodbury, Minn., last year. The groom who said “I do” to a woman he had just met in a well-publicized wedding at the Mall of America has died of colon cancer. David Weinlick was 48.

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    David and Elizabeth Weinlick pose for a photograph after renewing their wedding vows at the Mall of America in Bloomington, Minn., in 2017. The groom who said “I do” to a woman he had just met in a well-publicized wedding at the Mall of America nearly 20 years ago has died of colon cancer. David Weinlick was 48.

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MINNEAPOLIS >> David Weinlick knew he would get married on June 13, 1998. He just didn’t know who his bride would be.

Friends came to his aid and picked Elizabeth Runze from among hundreds of interested women. After knowing each other for only a few minutes, Weinlick and Runze said “I do” at a well-publicized wedding at the Mall of America in Bloomington.

The marriage lasted almost 20 years until Weinlick’s death from colon cancer on Sunday night. He was 48.

Weinlick, who was diagnosed with terminal, inoperable stage IV cancer in March 2017, died in hospice care in a Minneapolis suburb, said his friend, Minneapolis City Council member Steve Fletcher, who helped arranged Weinlick’s marriage to Runze.

“I was the instigator and Dave said, ‘Let’s do it,’” Fletcher recalled Tuesday about the arranged wedding. Using his experience in political campaigns. Fletcher said he knew how to write a press release and generate interest in Weinlick’s quest for a bride.

“People were so interested and it became really sort of a media phenomenon,” Fletcher said.

David Weinlick jokingly told relatives and friends he would be married June 13, 1998 — even though he didn’t have a bride in mind. Friends and family helped Weinlick as the date approached, shooting a commercial and placing advertisements. They eventually narrowed the field to two dozen women. Runze, known as Bethy, stood out because she was willing to work on a relationship.

“They came together not knowing anything about each other,” Fletcher said. He said the couple’s marriage lasted so long because they knew how to “really appreciate the unique and amazing things about each other.”

Bethy Weinlick quit her job as a nurse soon after her husband’s cancer diagnosis. David Weinlick had left work for the state Democratic-Farmer-Labor party years earlier. The couple had four children.

“More than just an important part of our story at the Mall, David and Bethy have become our friends. Like so many others, we feel the pain of the loss of David, but will always treasure his memory,” the Mall of America said in a statement. After David Weinlick’s cancer diagnosis, the couple renewed their wedding vows at the mall last August. The ceremony also served as a fundraiser for the Angel Foundation , which supports families coping with cancer.

The mall plans to host another fundraiser for the Angel Foundation on June 13, the couple’s 20th wedding anniversary, and is planning a way to permanently honor David Weinlick.

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