I read Florencia Aczon Ranchez’s letter comparing the choice of Amanda Eller’s fight to live versus using the option of ending one’s life when faced with a terminal illness (“Stories of life and death on front page of paper,” Star-Advertiser, Letters, May 29). The two are not even remotely the same. Eller is young, healthy, and has her entire life in front of her. I herald her courage and struggle to live.

I also herald the courage of those who choose to not let their loved ones witness incredible suffering and pain. Ranchez said a note about a Kona man who chose to shave, dress and dance with his wife before ending his life was romanticized and tragic. I think his choice was also very courageous and obviously right for him.

I found out two months ago that I also am terminal. I’ve already begun the process of obtaining the drugs to die on my terms.

I have watched someone die from cancer. That does not leave your mind. Why would I subject myself or those I love to that?

Deborah McGuire

Kailua-Kona

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