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I loved Te'o, hoaxer tells Dr. Phil

By Tom Coyne

Associated Press

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LAST UPDATED: 05:31 a.m. HST, Jan 31, 2013


SOUTH BEND, Ind. » Dr. Phil McGraw says Ronaiah Tuiasosopo, who masterminded the dead girlfriend hoax involving Manti Te'o, told him the Notre Dame linebacker was not involved in the scheme and that he ended up falling "deeply, romantically" in love with the football player.

McGraw spoke on the "Today" show Wednesday, previewing an interview he did with Tuiasosopo, a 22-year-old California man who created the fictional woman Te'o knew as Lennay Kekua. Tuiasosopo's interview with McGraw will air in two parts on the "Dr. Phil" show starting today.

Since the hoax was revealed earlier this month, Te'o has said the relationship with Kekua started online and eventually became serious, even though the two only talked on the phone and exchanged electronic messages, never meeting in person. Te'o said he was told of Kekua's "death" from leukemia just hours after his grandmother died in September.

McGraw said Tuiasosopo told him the voice of Kekua was his. Tuiasosopo and Te'o have each said that while the Kekua relationship went on for several years, there were times when they weren't in contact.

"There were many times where Manti and Lennay had broken up. But something would bring them back together whether it was something going on in his life, or in Lennay's life, in this case in my life," Tuiasosopo said.

Tuiasosopo said he wanted to end the relationship between Kekua and Te'o before he had to fake Kekua's death.

"I wanted to end it because everything I had gone through, I finally realized that I just had to move on with my life and I had to get me, Ronaiah, I had to start just living and let this go," Tuiasosopo said.

Te'o's publicist, Matthew Hiltzik, declined comment on behalf of Te'o and his family.

When the ruse was reported by Deadspin.com on Jan. 16, the report raised the questions about whether Te'o was involved. The story about how he played inspirationally after the deaths of his girlfriend and grandmother had led to an outpouring of support from Notre Dame fans.

McGraw says "absolutely, unequivocally" that Te'o had no role in creating the hoax.

Te'o said he first learned that something was amiss when Kekua called him on Dec. 6, and told him she had faked her death.

He told his parents about what had happened while home for Christmas break and called Notre Dame coaches on Dec. 26 to let them know. Notre Dame officials said that they interviewed Te'o and retained Stroz Friedberg, a New York computer forensics firm, to investigate the case. They learned on Jan. 3 that there were no records indicating Lennay Kekua existed.

McGraw said he spent hours with Tuiasosopo and his parents, saying he had a number of life experiences that "damaged this young man in some very serious ways."

McGraw said Tuiasosopo had feelings for Te'o.

"Here we have a young man that fell deeply, romantically in love," McGraw said.

McGraw said he asked Tuiasosopo whether he is gay.

"He said, ‘Well, when you put it that way, yes.' Then he caught himself and said, ‘I am confused,'" McGraw said.






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96815068 wrote:
Dr Phil? Bring on Jerry Springer!
on January 31,2013 | 01:45AM
clum56 wrote:
This will definetly affect the Tuiasasopo's as a great Mormon family and history of athlete's from their family. Why would he want to try and ruin Manti's reputation and future. I guess he couldn't be as great as Manu was with the Warriors and the 49er's.
on January 31,2013 | 03:33AM
nodaddynotthebelt wrote:
Manti Te'o's teammates did not believe that his "girlfriend" was real and felt disturbed that he played off on the hoax of the death of a girlfriend he barely knew in order to benefit from it (Heisman campaign). You can see this article from Deadspin, the media outlet that initially broke the news. Here is the link to that article: http://deadspin.com/5976762/manti-teos-teammates-had-their-doubts-about-lennay-kekua
on January 31,2013 | 09:31AM
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