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Reunion with pals links Obama to Punahou days

    President Barack Obama golfed Monday with friends Greg Orme, left, and Mike Ramos at Mid Pacific Country Club in Kailua. Obama has spent nearly every day of his Hawaii vacation with Orme, Ramos and Bobby Titcomb, pals whose friendship dates back to Obama’s high school days at Punahou School.
Since returning to his childhood home this month on vacation, President Barack Obama has spent a good part of most days cloistered with three peo- ple whose company puts him at ease. They’re not his wife and daughters, who came with him, but a trio of pals whose friendship dates back to Obama’s high school days in Hawaii.
The three men — Mike Ramos, Bobby Titcomb and Greg Orme — are among the few people still in Obama’s life who knew him long before he was famous. Although their paths have long since diverged, they’ve made it a point to gather for frequent reunions, in one of Obama’s most visible links to the days when his life was much simpler and his problems more mundane.
On this visit alone, Obama has spent more than 22 hours with the group on the lush golf courses on Oahu. When it rained, Obama and his pals went bowling, instead. And every year during Obama’s trip, they find time for a barbecue at Titcomb’s beachside home in Waialua, which they did Tuesday.
Although by now an an- nual tradition, the reunions have increasingly become the focal point of Obama’s family vacation in his second term as his teenage daughters spend less and less time at their father’s side. Once content to join their parents for outings to the aquarium or to get shave ice, Sasha and Malia are now more independent. Since arriving more than a week ago, Obama has been out in public with one of his daughters only once, briefly, during a hike.
What Obama and his companions talk about dur- ing their many hours alone is anyone’s guess. But the foursome rarely goes more than a few months without reconvening in one arrangement or another. In August, Obama kicked off his 53rd birthday weekend golfing with the three friends in suburban Maryland before heading to Camp David, the presidential retreat in the Catoctin Mountains.
All four were classmates at Punahou School, which Obama has described as "a prestigious prep school, an incubator for is- land elites." In his memoir, "Dreams From My Father," Obama recalled a high school career that was, for the most part, ordinary — "marginal report cards and calls to the principal’s office; part-time jobs at the burger chain; acne and driving tests and turbulent desire."
"I’d made my share of friends at school, gone on the occasional awkward date," Obama wrote. "And if I sometimes puzzled over the mysterious realignments of status that took place among my class- mates, as some rose and others fell depending on the whims of their bodies or the make of their cars, I took comfort in the knowl- edge that my own position had steadily improved."
Far less is known about Obama’s buddies, of course, than about the president himself. All three live mostly private lives when they’re not being pho- tographed with the com- mander in chief.
Ramos, who graduated from Punahou in 1978, bonded with Obama over their mutual affinity for jazz. He’s lived in Colorado, but was listed as a North Carolina resident when in 2012 he attended a state dinner at the White House that Obama held for British Prime Minister David Cameron.
Titcomb, who golfed another two days with Obama this month before the others got into town, was a year behind Obama at Punahou. Titcomb has worked as a commercial fisherman and an airline employee, according to the school’s alumni magazine. In 2011, he pleaded no contest to soliciting a prosti- tute, but Obama has stayed fiercely loyal to his child- hood friend.
Obama played basketball at Punahou with Orme, who the alumni magazine says is now a building contractor. Aging photos show Obama and Orme decked out in 1970s fashion with their dates before attending a high school prom.
Among U.S. presidents, Obama is not alone in carv- ing out time regularly to re- connect with his roots. Franklin D. Roosevelt made frequent trips back to Hyde Park, N.Y., throwing picnics or barbecues for former neighbors and friends, and George H.W. Bush remained pals with men he served with in World War II.
In the second term, presidents have often sought refuge from the pressure by disappearing into nature to fish or hunt, said Douglas Brinkley, a presidential historian at Rice University. But such solitude has become less and less attain- able for presidents in modern times.
"Many people call Obama aloof, and he hasn’t made a lot of friends in Washington," Brinkley said. "When you’re president, everybody wants something from you and only these types of friends are able to simply want your well-being. They have a dif- ferent level of affection for you than friends you meet later in life."
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