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Column: Extra caregiving help in the era of COVID-19

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                                Gary Simon, State President. AARP Hawaii.


    Gary Simon, State President. AARP Hawaii.

Even in ordinary times, the more than 157,000 unpaid family caregivers in Hawaii face a daunting and formidable set of daily tasks. Oftentimes with little or no training, many caregivers are responsible for wound care, tube feedings, dressing, managing the finances and medical bills of their loved ones, transportation, and more.

Of course, these are no ordinary times.

The coronavirus pandemic has complicated the lives of family caregivers, especially those with older loved ones who are most susceptible to COVID-19, the disease caused by the virus. It has added fear, anxiety and isolation to an already demanding and stressful situation. Here in Hawaii, routines have been upended as communities cope with this disease. We are under a statewide stay-at-home order. Visitations are no longer permitted at nursing homes.

Since the outbreak of the virus, AARP has been urging family caregivers to develop a plan in case they get sick or their loved one does. Our recommendations include:

Pull together a team. Develop a list of family and friends who can perform daily caregiving tasks. If available, identify local caregiving services that may offer a respite for family and friends.

Identify local services. In response to the virus, many restaurants and pharmacies are adding or increasing delivery services. The federal government’s Eldercare Locator ( can help you find support services in your area. The new online “AARP Community Connections” enables people to enter their ZIP codes and find informal groups of neighbors and friends offering help right in their own communities (

Inventory essential items. Determine how much food, medication and basic supplies your care recipient has on hand. We recommend a two-week supply of food, water, household cleaning supplies, and medical materials and equipment.

Get prescriptions in order. Make sure to have a list of medications, medical contacts and important information about your loved one, such as drug allergies. If there are upcoming routine medical appointments, reschedule those or, if possible, switch to a virtual visit. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) recommends having an extra 30-day supply of essential medications on hand. Don’t forget over-the-counter medications such as cough suppressants and fever-reducing drugs like acetaminophen.

Stay connected. Isolation is a big issue as we all follow the social-distancing guidance from the CDC. However, social distancing does not have to lead to social disconnection and loneliness. Develop a communication plan and identify times when members of the care team will check in on your loved one. Skype, Zoom and Facetime are useful digital apps that can help, but so are lower-tech options like email and telephone calling. To help fight the isolation, encourage people to send cards, letters, magazines, puzzles or other items a loved one would be happy to receive.

Protect yourself. Like they tell you on an airplane, “Put your own mask on first.” Now more than ever, it is important for family caregivers to take care of themselves. Follow the CDC guidelines of washing hands thoroughly, properly, and frequently, avoiding crowds, practicing social distancing and, by all means, if you feel sick, staying home. If you develop the virus, you will be of little use to those who are counting on you.

Though we would welcome your membership, our caregiving information and services are available to everyone. Our founder, Ethel Percy Andrus, said, “What we do, we do for all.” That has never been more important than in the face of this coronavirus as we all pull together to find our way and endure through this unprecedented crisis.


>> AARP has a toll-free family caregiving line for people looking after a loved one: Monday-Friday, 1 a.m. to 5 p.m. Hawaii time, at 877-333-5885.

>> Caregivers can get tips from experts, share their stories and get encouragement at

>> AARP Caregiver Resource Center online:

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